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Introverts should (sometimes) act like extrovertsIntroverts should (sometimes) act like extroverts
Advice

Trust me: I tried it.

By Olga Khazan
Want a better social life? Try these easy habits.Want a better social life? Try these easy habits.
Even Better

Why you should aim for one meaningful social interaction a day and other strategies for improving your “social biome.”

By Allie Volpe
My 93-year-old grandma has the best advice for throwing a great partyMy 93-year-old grandma has the best advice for throwing a great party
Even Better

It turns out the most enjoyable gatherings can be totally spontaneous.

By Allie Volpe
Major change doesn’t have to wreck your friendshipsMajor change doesn’t have to wreck your friendships
Life

Everyone evolves. Your friendships can too.

By Angel Martinez
Can men and women still be friends?Can men and women still be friends?
Even Better

We may be in the middle of a new gender war, but friendships with the opposite sex are still very much worth it.

By Allie Volpe
The author of the seminal book about loneliness explains what we’re getting wrongThe author of the seminal book about loneliness explains what we’re getting wrong
Podcast
Today, Explained podcast

Nearly 25 years after Robert Putnam’s Bowling Alone, Americans are more socially isolated than ever.

By Miranda Kennedy and Noel King
How to host holiday gatherings without losing your mind
How to get through the holidays without going broke

Experts share tips on entertaining on a small budget — and an even smaller space.

By Rebecca Jennings
These apps promise to help you make new friends. Could it work for me?
Even Better

Is my new best friend just a swipe away?

By Allie Volpe
Is making friends as an adult really hard, or is it just me?Is making friends as an adult really hard, or is it just me?
Explain It to Me

It’s tough out there. But it’s not all bad news.

By Allie Volpe
Going on vacation with friends? Read this first.Going on vacation with friends? Read this first.
Even Better

If you want to get away together, but you don’t want to fight, here’s what you need to know.

By Allie Volpe
The secret to modern friendship, according to real friendsThe secret to modern friendship, according to real friends
Even Better

My friend wrote a book about friendship. Here’s what we learned about ours.

By Allie Volpe
You really should say something if you hate your friend’s partnerYou really should say something if you hate your friend’s partner
Even Better

All is not lost if they are dating a complete loser.

By Allie Volpe
You should have more friends of all agesYou should have more friends of all ages
Even Better

Intergenerational friendships make your life richer. Here’s how to cultivate them.

By Charley Locke
How birthdays became week-long blowouts
Even Better

If your friends have started throwing lavish, time-intensive birthday celebrations, here’s how to navigate.

By Allie Volpe
Want to make more friends? Start a club.
Even Better

An idea for an era when Americans are lonelier than ever.

By Rebecca Jennings
The limits of therapy-speak
Even Better

Why it’s so appealing to use pop psychology terms — and when to stop.

By Allie Volpe
How much social interaction do you actually need?
Even Better

You don’t need to make new friends to have a fulfilling social life.

By Allie Volpe
The case for shame
Even Better

Maybe the world doesn’t need to know every thought you’ve ever had.

By Niloufar Haidari
How to find your people
Even Better

An adapted excerpt from Lane Moore’s You Will Find Your People: How to Make Meaningful Friendships as an Adult.

By Lane Moore
Small acts of kindness matter more than you think
Even Better

Text a friend, write a thank-you note, compliment a stranger — people appreciate these gestures.

By Allie Volpe
9 easy ways to make your life a little better
Even Better

Treat sleep like it’s a friend, make a single-item to-do list, and other unexpected ways to improve your life.

By Allie Volpe
Everyone messes up. Here’s how to say you’re sorry.
Even Better

It’s easy to give a bad apology. Here’s how to give a good one.

By Allie Volpe
How to offer help when you don’t know what to say
Even Better

Be validating and specific when extending a helping hand.

By Allie Volpe
From BTS fandom to video games: How 4 new friendships formed during lockdown
Culture

“It never would have happened if it weren’t for the pandemic.”

By Rachel Ramirez
Friendships are crucial to survive the isolation of the coronavirus pandemic. Why do they feel so hard?
Life

This period of social distancing may increase our loneliness, but it’s really only exacerbating a problem that’s been building for years.

By Aubrey Hirsch
How our housing choices make adult friendships more difficultHow our housing choices make adult friendships more difficult
Science

Hard to mix and mingle when you live in an auto-dependent suburban castle.

By David Roberts
What I wish my friends had said to me after my mom diedWhat I wish my friends had said to me after my mom died
Life

It’s hard to know what to say to a friend who is grieving. Here’s what you should keep in mind.

By Chelsea Gray
When I get a phone call, I assume someone died or is pregnantWhen I get a phone call, I assume someone died or is pregnant
Life

But that’s not a bad thing!

By Kate Shellnutt
I did speed dating — for friendship. Then I realized meeting people is the easy part.I did speed dating — for friendship. Then I realized meeting people is the easy part.
Life

True friendship forces you to keep coming back, even when it’s hard. Am I willing to do that?

By Eva Harder
The friendship plot is replacing the marriage plot. Crazy Ex-Girlfriend subverts both.The friendship plot is replacing the marriage plot. Crazy Ex-Girlfriend subverts both.
Culture

Why Paula and Rebecca are the true love story of Crazy Ex-Girlfriend.

By Constance Grady
Why 30 is the decade friends disappear — and what to do about it
Life

At 30, I’m not anxious about my biological clock or my career. I’m anxious about making friends.

By Kate Shellnutt
The Girls is a beautiful new novel about cults and teen girl friendships
Culture

Emma Cline’s terrific debut novel reads like My So-Called Life with cults. That’s a compliment.

By Constance Grady
What breaking up with my best friend taught me about male friendship
Features

Male friendships are supposed to be simple. Mine wasn’t.

By Ben Philippe